Do not forget that grandparents are not so harmless ! As a rule , the older generation of kids and indulge indulge all her whims. The child learns to manipulate adults , which in any case be allowed . Grandparents often " glorify " kids - even if not particularly praise for that . In some cases, it helps the child to restore shattered confidence in themselves , but sometimes it promotes self-centeredness . Grandparents who are used to participate in the life of grandchildren , gradually begin to interfere in their children's lives , adjust them for yourself , read morals and not so much to help much in the way. It is important to achieve a balance .